Very often you will hear the common phrase “what a coincidence” or, in response to some event, “it was just a coincidence” but I’m here to tell you there’s no such thing as a coincidence to the believer.
We bump into someone we’ve needed to see. We get an encouraging word exactly when we need it. You get a phone call from someone you’ve been thinking about and we think “what a coincidence” but I remind you again there’s no such thing for the believer. For the average man coincidence is an acceptable concept and explanation but not for God’s people. Paul makes the difference in understanding between us and others clear in I Corinthians 2: 12-14. “12 We have not received the spirit of the world but the Spirit who is from God, that we may understand what God has freely given us. 13 This is what we speak, not in words taught us by human wisdom but in words taught by the Spirit, expressing spiritual truths in spiritual words. 14 The man without the Spirit does not accept the things that come from the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him, and he cannot understand them, because they are spiritually discerned”.
The fact is that those situations we take as coincidental are a matter of God’s hand actively moving in our lives, moving us and placing others just where we need to be exactly when we need to be there. Even our thoughts aren’t as random as we might think. In fact more focus and less mental clutter would bring us into better tune with how and when God is talking to us thru the Holy Spirit. Consider I Corinthians 14:15 “Then what am I to do? I will pray with my spirit, but I will also pray with my mind and understanding”.
Our own disciplined attention to the Spirit could make God’s presence so much more real in our daily lives. He wouldn’t seem to be so far away. There are many faithful people who can witness to the fact that God can and does interact with us in miraculous ways in our day and time exactly as He did in those ancient scriptural days.
Many people have heard God’s voice very clearly because the have disciplined themselves to pay attention and listen. Some have claimed to converse with Him in audible dialogue just as Moses did on the mountain.
And still others have conversed with angels. They had the same startled and fearful reaction at the appearance as the women at Jesus’ tomb and had to be calmed with a “fear not” speech. Yes, when we are being hard headed He still sends His guardians to announce what we are to do for Him. These people I mention are believers who have truly learned to discern the Spirit to the level of direct communication. If you will recall, among the spiritual gifts is the ability to distinguish between spirits and recognize the true one. (…and no one can say “Jesus is Lord,” except by the Holy Spirit).
So then what is our objective? It is to become more focused and attentive. How do we unclutter our minds to accomplish this? We have to chunk the garbage the gets in the way and interferes with what God is telling us. We also have to consciously focus on having a positive attitude and intentionally reject the negative mindset that many of us easily fall into.
I’ve been reading one of Joyce Meyers’ bestsellers, Battlefield of the Mind. She spends a lot of time focusing on the impact of attitude on the way we worship, witness and live before others. Part 2 of the book refers to Conditions of the Mind.
Chapter 12 is titled “An Anxious and Worried Mind”. Does this sound like you? The points that are emphasized here are the fact that we need to get rid of anxiety (Matthew 6: 28-31), seek God, not gifts (verses 32-33), and we are to take one day at a time (verse 34). We should cast down imaginations (2 Cor 10:5), and cast our cares upon God (1 Peter 5:6,7). These are sure prescriptions to help rid you of unnecessary anxiety and worry.
The 13th chapter is on “A Judgmental, Critical and Suspicious Mind”. Am I talking about your attitude and your life? The chapter is a guide to avoid such a mindset. These are the types of scriptures that inspire me to be better. (Proverbs 4:23, “Keep and guard your heart with all vigilance and above all that you guard, for out of it flows the springs of life.”). It addresses how to deal with suspicion. (1 Cor 13:7, “Love bears up under anything and everything that comes, is ever ready to believe the best of every person…). Are you keeping your judgmental, critical and suspicious attitude in check? If not it’s going to be pretty hard to tune God in.
Of course there’s that classic verse, Romans 12:2 that reinforces the point of mental and spiritual focus, “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind.” How we think is how we will act. It’s restated very similarly in Ephesians 4:22-24 “22 Strip yourselves of your former nature which characterized your previous manner of life and becomes corrupt through lusts and desires that spring from delusion. 23 And be constantly renewed in the spirit of your mind 24 And put on the new nature created in God’s image, in true righteousness and holiness”.
These are the things we do to gain our focus so we can hear God talking to us. Remember, before Jesus died he said he would send the Holy Spirit back to us to tell us what God has to say to us. But it all starts with our attitude. It’s a conscious choice to go negative, so you can just as easily make a conscious choice to be positive. Once we’ve renewed our mind we’re now in a position to recognize God moving and influencing people and events. I’ll give you some examples to prove the point.
Have you ever had an old church lady tell you she had a dream about you and prayed for whatever was going on in your life? She was paying attention so that you would be blessed or protected.
Ever had a friend or church member stop you in the aisle after church and just ask if they could pray with you for a minute? He was paying attention to that leading on the inside and being obedient to it.
Have you ever been in the club or at the big party and someone walks up to you and asks “What are you doing here? You need to leave.” God put them in your face before you could get into trouble and damage your witness.
Has your mother ever told you not to go to this or that place because she had a bad feeling about it. That wasn’t a woman’s intuition. That was the Holy Spirit making her say that to you.
So God has given us all the tools we need. All we have to do is be attentive to the important things and we’ll see evidence of the Lord’s hand more and more every day.
As I leave you I want you to keep three things in mind to help you get on track. Repeat after me: (1) I will dump the garbage, and the clutter from my mind. (2) I will check my attitude, on a daily basis. (3) I will focus on the Word regularly, so I can see God’s hand at work. Do these things my friends and then you will realize that there is no such thing as coincidence for the believer.